The Way It Is: The Singleton’s Highway

The Way It Is: The Singleton’s Highway


The Chennai morning heat in April didn’t just press down — it wrapped everything in a thick, humid haze.
Guru sat behind the wheel of his battered silver Alto, inching forward on GST Road just past the Airport Flyover. Horns blared in a relentless Tamil-English cacophony. Election fever had turned the city into a frenzy of posters, loudspeakers, and flag-waving auto-rickshaws.
For the past hour he had been trapped in the lane of Manas. His mind was a storm of loops: Will the team finish the sprint on time? What if the client escalates the production bug?

Sweat trickled down his back. Did I lock the house properly?

Every slow-moving MTC bus, every sudden swerve by a two-wheeler, every political slogan blasting from a nearby speaker made his grip tighten on the wheel. He jerked the car into the middle lane without signalling. A loud horn exploded behind him.
“Why are you swerving like this?” he muttered angrily. He knew the answer. He was frantically searching for a faster lane — a shortcut out of the pressure, out of the noise, out of time itself.
Then the traffic ahead froze completely. This was Kala. The Great Force Quit.
Brake lights flared red like warning signals. A political rally had blocked the main stretch near the MEPZ approach, forcing everyone into a narrow, potholed service lane. The familiar fast-moving corridor he relied on every morning was simply gone — barricaded and redirected. Exit();
Guru pulled onto the muddy shoulder near the MEPZ gate, engine idling roughly. The AC struggled against the rising heat. His hands trembled on the steering wheel. The wipers squeaked uselessly against the rain. Election loudspeakers continued their roar in the distance.
That was when he saw it.
It wasn’t a physical thing. It was a thin silver line — brighter than any headlight, finer than spider silk — running straight through the rain-streaked windshield, through his chest, and into the grey chaos beyond. It didn’t start at the dashboard and it didn’t end at his office.
It was the thread — like a Global Singleton Variable in code: untouched by the local functions of traffic, weather, election noise, or the restless loops running in his mind. No matter how many times the “program” tried to create new instances of panic or distraction, this one unchanging reference remained.
And for the first time that chaotic morning, Guru realized he had never truly let go of it. As he sat there, a line from his own recent Instagram post on “Stewards Poems” floated into his mind:


The Way It Is
by William Stafford
There’s a thread you follow.
It goes among
things that change. But it doesn’t change.
People wonder about what you are pursuing.
You have to explain about the thread.
But it is hard for others to see.
While you hold it you can’t get lost.
Tragedies happen; people get hurt or die;
and you suffer and get old.
Nothing you do can stop time’s unfolding.
You don’t ever let go of the thread.

William Stafford’s words hit differently today.

The Convoy of Life — Not “My Way or the Highway”

We all begin in the same lane, moving together as a convoy. The shared lane feels comfortable and familiar.
Then the road conditions begin to shift.
Manas – The Disturbed Lane
When the mind is restless (Manas), you drive with agitation. You keep jumping lanes impulsively, reacting to every honk, every slow bus, and every perceived slight. The more you swerve, the more chaos you create. Horns blare. Stories spread. “Why is he driving like this?”

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   { stay together } 
 catch (Disturbance)
        { throw blame(); 
          create gossip(); 
          question everything(); 
        }


Kala – The Force Quit

If the restless jumping continues, Kala eventually answers. Heavy traffic, sudden rain, accidents, roadblocks, or election rallies force the situation.

Exit();

The old lane disappears whether you are ready or not.

Mukti – The Calm Lane

When the mind becomes calm and composed, driving itself becomes a meditation. You signal clearly and change lanes only when the inner thread calls for it. You let the old convoy continue without resentment.

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Old attachments, guilt, and “I must stay with them” references are released cleanly. This is the path to Mukti — the quiet letting go.

The Stubborn Grace of the Thread

Yet there is a quiet tension worth naming.
Stafford’s thread is not a reward given only to the calm driver. In the original poem, you hold the thread even when your mind is a complete mess — when you are stressed, exhausted, or driving through chaos. You simply refuse to let go.
That stubborn, mysterious grip is the hidden grace.
This inner thread finds a striking parallel in the Singleton design pattern, as explained in the article “Singleton – One Instance of Vedantic Philosophy” (arambhin.com). Just as a Singleton ensures only one instance of a class can ever exist, Advaita Vedanta reveals the singular, unchanging reality: Brahman / Atman, the one Supreme Consciousness.
All the “multiple instances” we perceive — different lanes, different vehicles, restless thoughts — are transient objects in code. The truth is there is only one instance. Realization is the recognition: “I am That.”
The Full Picture

When the mind is calm: The journey becomes a meditation; lane changes feel seamless.
When the mind is disturbed: The journey turns chaotic, and Kala may force your hand.
In both cases: The Singleton-like thread remains quietly available, even in the middle of the mess.

The Way It Is

You don’t need to be perfect to hold the thread.
In truth, the thread is often holding you — even when your hands tremble and the Chennai traffic honks loudly around you.
Whether through stillness or stubborn grace in the chaos, the promise remains:
While you hold it, you can’t get lost.
Nothing you do can stop time’s unfolding.
You don’t ever let go of the thread.
That is the way it is.

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